Social Media
has been dominating the world for years and everyone just can’t get enough of
it. Nowadays, people can instantly post their latest selfies and it only takes
seconds for friends and haters to comment. But what if you become the center of
attention in Social Media? What if you find out you have your own online
scandal? Let me list down few effective ways in dealing with online scandal.
So you see
yourself in the most embarrassing situation and comments from people you know
and you don’t know have been coming up, and you don’t know exactly what to do. Easy
on the emotional panic; just take a deep breath, and smile, because this too,
shall pass. It’s not the end of the
world for you. Yes - you’ll be the subject of criticism; yes - almost
everything will be said about you – but who cares? People will not judge you
with what you’re going through but on how you’ll get through it.
Laugh It Off
Never shed a
tear. Do not be the loser; be the bigger person. Sometimes, in the darkest
moment of your life, you’ll realize that to get over it, all you need is to
laugh it off and snap out of it.
Watch Your Words
In a battle
where your reputation and your name is at stake, sometimes you can’t help but
fight back with the meanest words you can ever say or write. But always
remember whatever you say or comment in the internet will stay there forever.
So watch your words, choose the right ones. Because whatever you say or
whatever you write might be just the best weapon people will use against you.
Let It Go
Don’t dwell
on shame, don’t live on embarrassment. There is more to life than trying to
prove yourself to people who doesn’t mean anything to your life. Bullies will
always be bullies, and you can’t do anything about it. You have your family and
friends – good sources of motivation and life lessons. Talk to them, ask for
help. And when everything else has been said and done, all you got to do is
keep your calm, chin up, move forward, and let it go.
Be Careful
When every stone has been thrown at you, and
when your online scandal has given you the worst time of your life, make sure
that the next time you’ll be famous is when you did something good. You’ve
experienced the nastiest things and you don’t want them to happen again.
Everything depends on you – on how you project yourself to people and how you
let people treat you. So make sure you know who to trust and you know to avoid.
Be careful with everything that you do with your life because keep in mind,
there are a million eyes watching over you and it only takes a camera phone and
Wi-Fi connection to either make or break you.
Hello po!
ReplyDeleteI know this is not connected with the above video however i just want to send this message to julia barretto and i hope there will come a time that she'll be able to read this.
I really don't know if there will be a chance for Julia Baretto to read this message i made BUT i believe somehow someone out there who will read this will be kind enough to send or share this to Julia Baretto.
So, here i am typing my message so that either julia baretto personally or other admins will be able to read this i hope this will still reach Julia Barretto herself.
Many people may come to misinterpret you, may judge you, may say so much negative and positive words behind you or even in front of you BUT this will not change who you are.
If in any chance you will be able to read my message i just want to let you know.....DON'T BE AFFECTED FROM ALL THE CRITICISM YOU ARE HEARING AND READING FROM COMMENTS OF OTHER PEOPLE. Remember who you are. They have no right to judge you only God can judge you. GOD HAVE BLESSED YOU SO MUCH. Don't allow these different comments to pull you down. Always remember how your family, friends, supporters and even God LOVES YOU. You may make mess---that's alright! you're not perfect----everybody is not perfect!
Always remember that you are the apple of God's eye and also remember, nasa showbiz ka kaya hindi mo talaga maiiwasan ang mga comments sa Iyo, masakit man o nakakalambot ng puso.
You are so young, beautiful and blessed! Don't allow these different comments to disturb you. Move forward and take one step at a time I believe you will SUCCEED You don't have to explain yourself. ‘cause there is nothing to explain of who you are. Once again, I emphasize this, only God can judge you.
GOD LOVES YOU even though you are imperfect because no one is PERFECT.
GOD BLESS YOU AND AND CAREER! May you have a more blessed career! And also god bless mira bella and for more shows to come!
Also, i want to add this: If in any chance that you'll be able to read this all i want to say is "FANTASTIC"!!! I believe you have evolved into a more mature individual today, though not perfect (because no one is perfect) at least you just enjoy sharing your God given talent. It's not a matter if you went wrong or you did perfectly. As long as you did your very best by heart. People may judge you but you don't have to get bothered. I may not know you personally but i believe You are a strong person because that's how God made you to be. Just remember to have faith in God, and no matter what God will never leave you nor forsake you. God loves you no matter what. You are the apple of his eyes. I believe as long as you build your foundation in christ, no matter what others will say or do, you'll stay strong. Have your strength in him.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT AND DAY!!! (^_^) (^_^) (^_^)
In additional: Your destiny is not determined by your critics. God has the final say. Quit listening to what the naysayers are telling you and stop living to please people. Shake that off and keep pressing forward in life. YOUR DESTINY IS NOT DETERMINED BY YOUR CRITICS. Do not allow the critics to change you. You need to be tough on the outside, but you have to stay tender on the inside. Often we become hard and calloused by criticism. If you are not creful, when critical people talk behind our backs, it's easy to let their poison get on the inside of us and start to change us. but you must keep your heart pure and stay true who God has made you to be. Don't let unwarranted criticism create stress in your life. JUST ALWAYS SMILE! God Bless you always!!! (^_^)